Andrew's Journal

This is the common question ask by us every time. How can we live happily in this world even we suffer. You must be flexible with everything. Flexible with the things you don't like, flexible with the things that oppose you.

We need to enlarge our heart to a biggest size, bigger then our ass. We must respects everything, accepts everything. You must not be angry no matter what.

It is okay if the driver in front you drive slowly. It is okay if your neighbour is Muslim or Hindusm. It is okay if they still singing loudly in late night. It is okay if someone insult you, talk bad about you. It is okay if someone is killing you! Although it is not logical, but try to imagine, just imagine if someone is really kill you and you're happy instead of get angry, how happy can you be while you're living.

The point is to see how much space you are going to give to people that are different than you. How much can you tolerate. (If you are a Muslim, can you tolerate people burning Al-Quran in front of you? If you are a Christian, can you tolerate someone burning Jesus picture in front of you? ). They can't really tolerate this. If you really stick to your religion, why are you angry. True! Why should you angry. They will go hell after that. God will blast them. God will do their job.

But I'm not telling you that let a rapist rape you tomorrow or let a terrorist kill you tomorrow. I am trying to tell you that if you can accept this things, your happiness will be maximum. People with this level can be happy even they suffer you. Maybe we don't need to get so extreme, we go on with half-extreme..or none extreme. We can't tolerate little things. Goverment sue Namewee for singing Negarakuku is a good example. He is singing the truth. Goverment should change themself to better instead of sue-ing there and here. Even I can't be in this level. I can't even tolerate some small things.

Your happiness doesn’t require any requirements and criteria. You no longer need things and people to be the way you want them to be. Enjoy your life.